Meet Emily- Women’s Sex Coach,

Educator & Embodiment Guide

I’m Emily Matthews — a women’s sex coach and educator dedicated to helping women reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their pleasure, and feel at home within themselves again.

My work is rooted in the belief that pleasure is not a luxury or a reward — it’s a birthright. And yet so many women move through the world numb, disconnected, overwhelmed, and unsure how to express what they truly want.

Through somatic practices, trauma-informed coaching, and years of studying sexuality, desire, and the nervous system, I rebuilt my relationship with my body from the ground up. I learned how to feel again — fully, honestly, safely. And that reclamation transformed my entire life.

Now, I support women who are ready for the same.

Women who want to feel alive again.

Women who want confidence, connection, safety, and sensuality — in their relationships, but also in themselves.

Women who know there is more available to them, and are ready to claim it.

This space is for you.
For your pleasure.
For your liberation.

My Journey to Pleasure

For a long time, I lived from the neck up.
I grew up disconnected from my body, shaped by perfectionism, and taught to prioritise being “good,” agreeable, and easy to love. I knew how to take care of everyone else — but not myself.

And then everything collapsed.

My world came crashing to a halt when I was sexually assaulted. It forced me into some of the darkest, most confronting seasons of my life. While I would never wish that experience on anyone, it was the wake-up call that cracked me open — the moment I knew I could no longer live disconnected from my own body, needs, and truth.

My healing wasn’t linear.
Some parts moved fast, others painfully slow.
Some were full of relief and beauty, others heavy and raw.

But every step pulled me closer to myself.

Through somatic work, embodiment practices, and trauma-informed coaching, I learned how to listen to my body again — how to meet my emotions instead of overriding them, how to stop performing in intimacy, and how to come home to my own pleasure without shame.

That journey taught me something I will never unlearn:
Pleasure isn’t a reward. It’s a birthright.
It’s the foundation of how we relate, how we love, and how we exist inside our own skin.

Now, as a women’s sex coach and integrative educator, I support other women walking their own versions of this path — women who want to feel alive again, express their desires, rebuild trust with their bodies, and reclaim the pleasure that has always been theirs.

This work isn’t just about sex.
It’s about liberation.
It’s about returning to the woman you were always meant to be.

Emily Matthews- Sex Coach, Educator and Speaker for women in Melbourne and Online

my Proven Pleasure Portal™️ Process

  1. Safety

4.Pleasure

2. Desire

3. Expression

I don’t just teach pleasure — I help you embody it.

My approach combines neuroscience, nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, and sensual embodiment to create lasting transformation.

Before any exploration of desire, we start with safety.
Through somatic and nervous system practices, we create a space where your body can relax, your mind can trust, and you feel fully contained. You’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system and meet yourself with curiosity rather than judgment. Feeling safe in your own skin is the foundation for everything that follows.

Once your nervous system feels grounded, we tune into your desires — both subtle and overt.
This isn’t about pressure or performance; it’s about curiosity, awareness, and reconnecting with what truly excites you. Together, we explore what turns you on, what lights you up, and what has been dormant or ignored. Desire is the spark that sets pleasure in motion.

Desire is only as powerful as the way we express it.
In this step, we build the skills, confidence, and language to communicate your needs — to yourself and others — in ways that feel safe, empowered, and authentic. Expression is about translating inner knowing into embodied action: boundaries, touch, communication, and erotic exploration.

Throughout this process we are grounded in conscious, embodied pleasure. This is where you feel the full integration of safety, desire, and expression — a living, breathing experience that radiates through every part of your life. Pleasure isn’t something you earn; it is the center of every step, available to you at all times.

My Integrative Approach

6 Principles That Guide My Work:

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TESTIMONIALS

  • "Emily helped me come back to my centre, ground into my body, connect the dots, receive the messages I was struggling to see alone & release new levels of Insecurity. These sessions are like a shot of whiskey in a tea cup. A loving hug and a fire in your heart to carry you forth"

    - Holly

  • "I had such an interesting session with Emily, she helped me identify what emotions were holding me back and worked through releasing them. She was amazing and talking me through the session and holding such a safe space for me to open up. I felt so so at peace, comfortable, open to receiving and working through feeling safer to feel deserving. I had so many insights for how to move forward and gave me embodiment task to. Emily is a truly beautiful facilitator"

    - Lucy

  • "Emily was absolutely amazing, I can't really explain it but after our session I felt a massive shift in energy, my body felt lighter AND I truly let go, that night everything fell into place. Emily helped me align and release what needed to be let go of to step further into my power. I would highly recommend her"

    - L


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