A women’s sex coach guides you to understand your sexuality, explore desire, communicate your needs, and embody pleasure. Unlike therapy, sex coaching focuses on practical tools, embodiment, and real-life sexual empowerment.

Somatic sex coaching combines body-based practices, nervous system awareness, and embodiment to help women feel safe, express desire, and fully experience pleasure.

Integrative sex coaching expands on somatic sex coaching by adding a health science informed layer and is a specific modality created by Gynecologist and Medical Doctor Isabela Bottura and renowned women’s sex coach Bonnie Bliss, both of whom I have trained under in their 500hr Integrative Sex Coaching and Education Certificate.

Yes. Emily delivers tailored talks and workshops for women’s events, wellness retreats, or corporate wellbeing sessions, blending education with embodiment and real-life tools.

If you want to feel confident, reconnect with your desires, or reignite intimacy — whether single or in a relationship — 1:1 pleasure coaching meets you where you are and helps you embody more pleasure in life. Explore 1:1 Sex Coaching

No, whilst I may recommend genital based practices for you to do at home in your own privacy we never undress or touch genitals during coaching sessions or workshops. Homplay practices are given based on your level of comfort and what will support you.

Absolutely. Coaching helps you reconnect to your body, understand changes in desire, and rediscover sexual confidence and intimacy — without pressure, shame, or obligation.

No! I also work with women who love their sex lives and want to expand upon what is already working well, experience more pleasure and expand their orgasmic potential.

Yes. Coaching supports you to explore your sexual desires, build confidence in your body, and develop the skills to call in a partner who truly sees and desires you.

You’re ready if you feel disconnected from your desire, curious to explore your sexuality, want more pleasure in life, or want to reignite intimacy in a relationship. If you’re asking these questions, coaching can help you reclaim your confidence, curiosity, and aliveness. I’d love to have a call with you to see if we are a good fit and now is a good time. You can book a free chemistry call here.

Coaching focuses on practical, actionable strategies and somatic embodiment, whereas therapy often focuses on past trauma or psychological processing. Coaching empowers you to take immediate steps toward sexual confidence, pleasure, and desire in your life.

I work with women and vulva-owners worldwide via secure online sessions. In-person sessions are available in Melbourne by request.

Emily Matthews is a Melbourne-based women’s sex coach, integrative educator, and pleasure expert. She helps women reconnect with their bodies, reclaim desire, and experience pleasure fully — whether single or in a relationship.

My signature 1:1 coaching programs is are 3 and 6 months long with fortnightly calls and in-between message support. Tell me more about 1:1 Coaching

Popular topics include reclaiming pleasure, sexual confidence, dating, embodiment, female desire, healing sexual shame, and breaking free from perfectionism.

You can contact Emily directly via the speaking/workshops page to discuss your event, audience, and tailored content.

Simply download the guide or join the mailing list for audio practices and regular tips to deepen your sexual embodiment.