Reclaim Your Desire.

Rediscover Your Pleasure.

Step Fully Into Your Sexual Confidence.

Sex has lost its spark, feels like a chore, or maybe it never fully arrived.

Whether you’re in a relationship where intimacy has faded or single and ready to explore your sexuality, I help women reconnect to their bodies, awaken desire, and embody pleasure — unapologetically, fully, and on their own terms.

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1:1 Pleasure Coaching for Women

Ready to Reconnect, Rediscover, and Reclaim

Sex has lost its spark — or maybe it never fully arrived. For some women, intimacy in a relationship feels like a chore, rushed, or obligation-driven, leaving you wondering where your desire went. For others, you’re single and curious, craving a deeper connection with your body and sexuality, wanting to explore your pleasure, and ready to magnetise a partner who truly sees and desires you.

No matter your current situation, the truth is the same: your sexual confidence, curiosity, and pleasure aren’t gone. They’re waiting for you to reclaim them.

Through integrative, somatic, and trauma-informed coaching, I guide women to reconnect to their bodies, rediscover their desire, and embody pleasure — whether it’s reigniting intimacy in an existing relationship or stepping boldly into the dating world with clarity, confidence, and embodied sensuality.

Integrative Sex Coach Emily Matthews

For the Woman who knows there’s more

It’s for the woman who senses something deeper calling — the part of her that’s ready to feel again.

This work is for women who are ready to:

  • Reconnect with desire that feels natural, alive, and magnetic

  • Experience pleasure as an everyday part of life — not something earned or pressured

  • Reignite intimacy in a relationship that has lost its spark

  • Explore their sexuality and embodiment in preparation for a fulfilling future relationship

  • Build confidence, self-trust, and the ability to express sexual needs clearly

Whether you’re rediscovering your desire in an existing relationship or awakening your sexuality to call in your dream partner, this coaching is about reclaiming pleasure as your birthright and living fully embodied.

What 1:1 Pleasure Coaching Looks Like

Each session is an invitation to slow down, come home to your body, and explore what’s alive beneath the surface.
My integrative approach blends somatic awareness, trauma-informed coaching, and embodiment practices designed to help you:

  • Feel safe and confident in your body

  • Reignite desire and intimacy (with yourself and others)

  • Communicate needs, boundaries and desires with clarity

  • Reclaim pleasure as a natural, everyday part of life

  • A quickie

    Book in for a one-off 90 minute Coaching Session that is guaranteed to leave you satisfied.

  • Coaching Package

    A 3 or 6 month 1:1 Coaching Package personalised to your needs, wants and desires.

Integrative Sex Coach Emily Matthews

The Experience

For 1:1 Coaching Packages over 3 or 6 months:

  • Fortnightly 1:1 Sessions held via zoom

  • A detailed follow up email after each call with the exact plan for the next 2 weeks

  • Up to 1 hour of telegram text / voice message support between each call for accountability, processing, questions, reflection or making any changes to the program if needed.

  • Essentially your own personalised program created by me, based on exactly what you need, as a collaboration with you - access to all of my expertise I can offer you during that period (Note: This requires a commitment of about 2 hours a week for home practices and learning / exploration, outside of our calls every 2 weeks)

  • A library of practices, guided audios and resources tailored to your needs

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 FAQs

  • If you want to feel confident, reconnect with your desires, or reignite intimacy — whether single or in a relationship — 1:1 pleasure coaching meets you where you are and helps you embody more pleasure in life. Explore 1:1 Sex Coaching

  • No, whilst I may recommend genital based practices for you to do at home in your own privacy we never undress or touch genitals during coaching sessions or workshops. Homplay practices are given based on your level of comfort and what will support you.

  • No! I also work with women who love their sex lives and want to expand upon what is already working well, experience more pleasure and expand their orgasmic potential.

  • Absolutely. Coaching helps you reconnect to your body, understand changes in desire, and rediscover sexual confidence and intimacy — without pressure, shame, or obligation.

  • Yes. Coaching supports you to explore your sexual desires, build confidence in your body, and develop the skills to call in a partner who truly sees and desires you.

  • You’re ready if you feel disconnected from your desire, curious to explore your sexuality, want more pleasure in life, or want to reignite intimacy in a relationship. If you’re asking these questions, coaching can help you reclaim your confidence, curiosity, and aliveness. I’d love to have a call with you to see if we are a good fit and now is a good time. You can book a free chemistry call here.

  • Coaching focuses on practical, actionable strategies and somatic embodiment, whereas therapy often focuses on past trauma or psychological processing. Coaching empowers you to take immediate steps toward sexual confidence, pleasure, and desire in your life.

  • I work with women and vulva-owners worldwide via secure online sessions. In-person sessions are available in Melbourne by request.

  • My signature 1:1 coaching programs is are 3 and 6 months long with fortnightly calls and in-between message support. Tell me more about 1:1 Coaching