Confidence for the Words You Never Know How to Say
Dirty talk is a skill, not a personality trait — and it's one you can build.
WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW
You want to say something hot in the moment and your brain gives you absolutely nothing. So you stay silent, or say something that feels cringe the second it's out.
WHERE THIS TAKES YOU
Imagine having language ready — words that sound like you, not a bad movie line — and the confidence to actually say them.
WHY THIS MATTERS
Silence in bed isn't sexy, it's just quiet. Words build heat.
HOW IT WORKS
Live masterclass —Monday 16th November 7.30-8.30pm
Free to attend live, replay available afterward for 48 hours before becoming a paid offering
Format: talk + live Q&A, so you can ask the specific situation you're navigating
WHAT YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH
Beginner-friendly prompts
Warm-up exercises to build confidence saying things out loud
Ways to find your own voice instead of copying a script forever
WHO THIS IS FOR
Any woman or vulva-owner who's frozen mid-moment trying to think of something to say.
WHY EMILY
Emily Matthews is a holistic sex coach and educator with 500 hours of training under a somatic sexologist and medical doctor. Her approach is grounded in somatic and embodiment practices, nervous system regulation, and pleasure education — helping women move out of shame, guilt, and disconnection and back into their own desire.
Find your words. Class starts November 16.
FAQs
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Nope — live attendance is completely optional but is incentivised as you'll get access to an exclusive worksheet. You'll get a replay link after class if you can't make it and will have 48 hours to watch the recording because this playclass turns into a paid offering..
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All good. Register anyway and the replay will land in your inbox for 48 hours once the class wraps.
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We talk openly and specifically about sex, bodies, and pleasure (that's the whole point). It's frank, not gratuitous. If you're comfortable with an honest conversation about sex (and a few diagrams), you're in the right place.
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Not at all. Everything covered applies whether you're partnered, single, dating, or somewhere in between.
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Yes — questions can be submitted anonymously during the live session, simply change your zoom name to "anonymous" and have your camera off and ask away. Or you can preemptively send your question to Emily via email with the subject line Use Your Words Anon Question.
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No — this is education, not therapy and not medical advice. If something that comes up feels like it needs more individual support, 1:1 coaching is available separately or you will be referred onwards.
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Totally up to you — each class stands alone, so come to one, come to all 11, whatever suits.
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The replay will be sent to the email you registered with within 12 hours for 48 hours access.
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This content is intended for adults 18+