Faking It Isn't a Personality Trait
Why you fake it, why it's not your fault, and how to stop for good.
WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW
You've faked it more times than you'd admit — to keep things moving, to protect his feelings, to avoid the awkward conversation about what's actually going on. It's quietly exhausting and you've never said it out loud.
WHERE THIS TAKES YOU
Imagine being honest in bed without it feeling like a confrontation. Real pleasure, or real communication about what's not working — either way, no more performing.
WHY THIS MATTERS
Faking it doesn't just deny you pleasure — it teaches your partner the wrong things work. Nobody wins.
HOW IT WORKS
Live masterclass —Monday 5th October 7.30-8.30pm
Free to attend live, replay available afterward for 48 hours before becoming a paid offering
Format: talk + live Q&A, so you can ask the specific situation you're navigating
WHAT YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH
The real (and very common) reasons behind faking it
How to shift toward honesty without a big dramatic conversation
Language for the in-the-moment redirect
WHO THIS IS FOR
Any woman or vulva-owner who's ever faked it "just to get it over with."
WHY EMILY
Emily Matthews is a holistic sex coach and educator with 500 hours of training under a somatic sexologist and medical doctor. Her approach is grounded in somatic and embodiment practices, nervous system regulation, and pleasure education — helping women move out of shame, guilt, and disconnection and back into their own desire.
The performance ends here. Class starts September 7th
FAQs
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Nope — live attendance is completely optional but is incentivised as you'll get access to an exclusive worksheet. You'll get a replay link after class if you can't make it and will have 48 hours to watch the recording because this playclass turns into a paid offering..
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All good. Register anyway and the replay will land in your inbox for 48 hours once the class wraps.
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We talk openly and specifically about sex, bodies, and pleasure (that's the whole point). It's frank, not gratuitous. If you're comfortable with an honest conversation about sex (and a few diagrams), you're in the right place.
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Not at all. Everything covered applies whether you're partnered, single, dating, or somewhere in between.
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Yes — questions can be submitted anonymously during the live session, simply change your zoom name to "anonymous" and have your camera off and ask away. Or you can preemptively send your question to Emily via email with the subject line Use Your Words Anon Question.
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No — this is education, not therapy and not medical advice. If something that comes up feels like it needs more individual support, 1:1 coaching is available separately or you will be referred onwards.
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Totally up to you — each class stands alone, so come to one, come to all 11, whatever suits.
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The replay will be sent to the email you registered with within 12 hours for 48 hours access.
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This content is intended for adults 18+